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Sunday, December 27, 2015

How to Create a LIMITLESS Life for 2016

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2016 is rapidly approaching. With it, the inevitable New Year’s resolutions, or as I like to call them “January’s Lies.”

New Year’s Resolutions are as worthless as cat shit under a couch. Think about it. Do you even REMEMBER 2015’s resolutions? Did you write them down, follow them? Create lasting and memorable change? I didn’t think so.

Most people hold onto these fantasies like some kind of sick affirmation of desperate hope. Just like Princess Leah begging for mercy on Alderaan, most resolutions will get blasted to bits, not by the Death Star, but by the Four Horseman of Shitty Lives:

Bad Eating Habits

Ineffective Exercise Plan

Improperly Creating a Goal Achievement Plan

Inability to Create Sacrifice for Long Term Reward

As long as people still adhere to these four tenets, I will continue to have an amazing career as a life coach. It’s not that people are deliberately being ineffective, its that they are trying to do something that they have VERY little practice at. I have been a life coach for over a decade. I have developed the most cutting edge methods of powerful life change known to modern America.

You wouldn’t try to fix a broken water pipe, repair a car engine, or set up your computer network without formal training right? It would be a mess unless you knew what you were doing. But when people make their New Year’s resolutions, they don’t have the experience, determination, or method of delivery to properly create a lasting change.

I suck at graphic design. I have had no training and everything I design looks like I have a serious neurological disorder or drug addiction. I learned to sub-contract to pros. If you truly want to get ahead in 2016, sub-contract your life plan to Dr. Rob. I have a LONG list of success stories and results, plus I’m kinda funny.

I woke up at 0445 today, ran 8 miles at the beach, THEN worked out. That co joined with intermittent fasting created these results:

*A leaner, trimmer appearance
*Maximum cognitive processing
*Good mood
*Lowered chance of Type 2 diabetes due to hormonal reset/lowered insulin resistance
*MUCH better interactions with people today including the *LADIES*

These are the lifestyle tips I pass on to maximize your happiness and life.

Without further hyperbole, here are the three most direct ways to do something amazing with your life in 2016:

Make a Massive Life Upheaval – The fastest way to create new change is to create a new YOU. Some ways you can achieve this:

IMAGE There is no better way to perpetuate a new you than to literally reshape who you are. Look at what you want to change, think about what your ideal persona would be and ACT.

*Fast Weight Loss

*Put on 15 Pounds of Lean Muscle

*Buy a New Wardrobe That is Fitted to Your Body Type

*Put on 15 Pounds of Bulk Muscle

*Adopt 5 New Ways to Achieve Confidence With Others

CREATE SIDE INCOME – Passive income has never been easier. With sites allowing self publishing, graphic design and Itunes, you can become a new entrepreneur in days.

*Write A Book

*Create a Blog

*Start a Podcast

*Start a New Business

*Write a Song

*Get a Speaking Gig

*Start Consulting

ASSEMBLE AN A-TEAM – You are the culmination of the 5 people you spend the most time with. If these people look like extras from Sons of Anarchy, there might be a reason that you aren’t reaching your life goals. You need people that have three things: 1. A supportive/encouraging attitude, 2. A high degree of intelligence or a high aptitude at something, 3. A life free of drama/excessive self imposed misfortune

*Attend Higher Class Events

*Join a Professional’s Group using

*Ask Friends Who the Smartest People They Know Are

*Find High Value Old Friends Using Social Media

*Attend Seminars

*Take a New Class

*Find the Richest Part of Town, Dress Nice, and Talk to People

Hopefully, you have seen some ideas that interest you. I wanted to make a guide that was easy to use, but got you thinking about what you really want in 2016.

There’s just one last thing………….

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Friday, December 18, 2015

Superhuman Learning...A Guide to Access It

Happy Friday Blue Dragon Readers! I hope you have been productive and working hard. Today's blog is going to be on Superhuman Learning....yes it exists, and yes it can be accessed.

I can already hear some of you, "Does this involve crystals, man?"

"Hey maaaaan, tonight we will dance with the
pagans in Old Man Bernstein's pasture"
I am happy to say, no Moonbeam, it involves several techniques that are proven and easy to implement. Let's talk about fast learning and why it's important. Fast learners outwork their peers, can accomplish things in a much faster time and can power through goals quickly to have high rates of productivity. How do I know all this?

I come from a low income background. Everyone in my family is on drugs or in jail. My 9th grade report card was Ds and Fs. At 17, I was about to join a gang. I had zero hope and was headed to jail or a minimum wage life.

Today I have been on TV, radio, and podcasts. I have published  7 books, and used certain techniques to DESTROY my previous productivity roadblocks. I am living proof that these techniques are effective, easy to use, and affordable.

These techniques can be used for many things, here are a few suggestions:

*learning a language fast

*improving athletic performance

*expanding your business

*learning an unfamiliar technique (for me, I recently learned to reprogram DOS to play my favorite old school video game Ultima plus I learned about how to use sales funnels)

*improving job or military performance

*writing academic papers at BLAZING speed

*becoming better at dating

Evidence of Comprehension
So lets talk about what our goals are for superhuman learning and work backwards. A person that is proficient in these techniques will have three things:

1. Elevated comprehension - they can explain their chosen subject using unique terminology. They can make a diagram from memory explaining the process and they can instruct a group about the technique

2. They will possess a demonstrate-able method of application. All this means is that they will be able to play an instrument, recite poetry, do an equation or show off a new dance. They just need a medium of delivery

3. They have an experience either reciting, performing or otherwise LIVING the skill they learned. Life experience is a great way to build confidence at something.

The Neutropic Factor
The first thing I would suggest is the introduction of neutropics into your life. These safe and affordable drugs are healthy, effective and have clinical research supporting their effectiveness.

Alphabrain is the best neutropic I have found so far. It reduces brain fog and helps me access high order thought. Its REALLY good before a run. You can get it at a discount here:

I have identified 15 methods of fast learning techniques that can be used to quickly close your learning curve at a new endeavor. Guess what I found out?

They can stack.

Why is this important? Because by using a few techniques to learn the same thing, your level of learning multiplies.

Think of this burger as one medium of learning, like reading a book:

Now this is what a multiple stack of learning looks like:

So what are some of the actions you can take that support the 15 techniques?

*draw a diagram

*find an expert

*ask questions to yourself about how you view mastery of the topic

*pattern after someone in that field

Another technique that people are swearing by? Scented oil or candles. No really. There are even studies showing increased comprehension in children by using scents during learning time: scents in adolescent learning

So bust out that yankee candle, buy some peppermint oil and you are on your way!

Now that we have discussed stacks and actions, what if I told you that a new exciting product has just been completed that not only explains 4 of the 15 techniques, but also shows a real life example? My newest module, How to Speed Learn ANYTHING is the FASTEST way to learn these techniques and isolate your highest state of learning.

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Well learners, that's it for this week. I hope this was a good entry into the world of high tier thinking. Remember to subscribe at the top, if you like the post, share it.

Dr. Rob

Friday, December 4, 2015

Four Ways That Fitness Professionals Can Make Side Income...

I am lucky enough to live in San Diego. We have a huge fitness community and a wide variety of activities available. As Operations Manager of Fitness Inked Magazine, one thing I do is to help fitness professionals expand their empire and earning potential. 

You may be making income from training people, but why aren't you making passive income from doing nearly nothing?

You worked hard to build up your brand. You created your programs and slowly started to accumulate clients. So why not quadruple your income using your business venture as a launching platform? Here are four ways to do this:

1. Use Your Website to Host Affiliates

It amazes me that everyone isn't doing this. I had my affiliates set up in one day. Basically you partner up with a larger company and promote their products on your site. When someone visits your site, clicks their link and buys something, YOU get a commission. How awesome is that? Here are some sites you can use:






Guess what? You can make an entire product page of your affiliates' products, and NEVER HAVE TO CREATE PRODUCTS. That's smart thinking.

2. Create Digital Products About Fitness

Pay close attention to this one. It's a HUGE market. You can create a digital product on ANY topic (intermittent fasting, dumbbell rows, meditation, etc), find a hosting site, and then sell it on your website. 

Let that sink in. After you post it on your website, you do NOTHING but promote it, and money rolls in. You don't even have to send the damn thing. The hosting site sends out your PDF automatically. Here is how I do this:

*Create product FREE on (for graphic and design work at a pro level, use and hire an outside designer, starts at $5)

*Upload to (10 bucks a month and WORTH IT)

*Place purchase button from ejunkie on your website

*Collect money in your sleep

3. Virtual Consulting

You can have clients all over the country and all over the world. Using Skype, webcams, calls and emails, it is possible to offer fitness and diet consulting to them. Why are you only working in your town? Get listed on fitness directories, purchase some banner ads or advertise on Craigslist, but get your name out there and start collecting fees. 

4. Create a Product Line

Your company has gotten popular, you have clients like crazy, why aren't you selling your own line of fitness products? Using Vistaprint, you can have anything branded. Use wholesale sites to find products that fit your company or venture such as 

For a GREAT branding company, try These guys have been in business for years and have thousands of branding options for your products. 

Well guys, thats it for this week. Hopefully you have gotten some new ideas to help generate income. Do me a favor and sign up for this blog in the upper right. I promise to always write awesome stuff to help you meet your goals. For further help, visit my life transformation site at 

Dr. Rob

Tuesday, November 17, 2015

Why No One Wants to Date You.....

This one will definitely win over some hearts. The truth is a bitter pill to swallow for some.  Its completely honest and will shed some light on certain lifestyle elements that are keeping good people single and undateable.

Full disclosure: I have been single for 7 years. I have no embarrassment about it. I don't date women that have no goals or ambition. My standards for my life are high and I only keep company with people that can add value. That being said, I'll tell you EXACTLY what online dating really is about.

Men and women essentially want the same things in a partner:


Mutual Attraction


But we select our potential mates completely differently. For the majority of this article, I'll be focused on online dating sites and maximizing your attractiveness. The advice however, absolutely works in real life applications as well.

I get hit on via dating sites almost daily. I ignore 95% of girls that write to me. I'm not some superficial jerk, I just realize that dating someone I have low interest in is a waste of time for both of us. The women that I ignore have the following traits:

1. Haven't maximized their body type (either need to lose weight or gain toned muscle).

2. Have shitty pictures (blurry, only headshots indicating body embarrassment, far away pics that dont show what she looks like).

3. Have awfully written profiles that demonstrate low intelligence or absence of any high tier cognitive ability. (for Christ's sakes, I have 6 degrees and you are writing "luv tatts on hawt guyz, luv to B spoiledddddd")

Guys, you aren't off the hook either. My BFF Heather, has been online dating for awhile (she's a high level exec and doesn't have time for most of your shenanigans either) and has shared some wonderful insight:

*Don't show up with a giant bald spot or completely bald after your pics have you looking like you have a glorious Fabio mane of hair, Einstein

*SHUT UP ABOUT YOURSELF, don't dominate the conversation and make it about how great you are (yeah, I really wrote that, I can't believe it either)

*Don't be uber creepy and touch her, talk about sex stuff, or be insecure and whiny. Girls smell fear and weakness. You're a man. Act like one.

So now that I have pointed out some serious flaws that many of you aren't addressing, I will teach you how to maximize your DSV (dating social value).


*Women look at profiles and subconsciously ask, "Will he be supportive and gain the approval of my friends and family?"

Be that guy. If you don't have a career you are proud of, go back to school. Seek a better job. Its not about money, its about stability. After 30, you shouldn't have roommates, you should have a portfolio and an empire. You should be a guy that women fight over.

Start a fitness program, eat better, use the articles in this blog to lose fat, find free school, be smarter and COMPLETELY revamp who you are. When you meet that special lady, YOU MUST CONTINUE TO ACT LIKE YOU ARE DATING. Don't get complacent just because you finally got her to commit to you. Trust me, she has plenty of choices and most of them involve some bouncer that has a speedbike and an AK-47 tattoo.


*Men look at your pictures first because we are genetically programmed to seek mates that are healthy and have strong child bearing features (sorry if you think that's sexist but its true). We are most drawn to 2 body types:

Thin, lean, Crossfit athletic types............................and curvy, pretty girls with big hips and big boobs

Girls that have muffin tops, wear clothes that are too tight and that have double chins are NOT CURVY. I know there are many misconceptions about body awareness because of fat acceptance, Tess Munster and all that, but guess what? The 2 types theory is how you can maximize your potential if you are serious about attracting your dream guy.

*For your profile, come across as fun, interesting, and a girl that will make a man's life better. For the love of God, men are sick of reading:

"If you cant handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best" (great, now I know that you're crazy and wont fess up to it)

"You need to love my curves, I'm not changing" (No, Ill just date someone with a gym membership)

"Not looking for a booty call" (Oh yeah, me either)

"I love dressing up and going out, and am just as comfortable laying on the couch watching Netflix" (Wow, you are so down to earth. Guess what? SO IS EVERY GIRL ON HERE)

Here are how you can drastically raise DSV without much effort:

1. Take better pictures showing you doing cool stuff. Experiment with black and white photography and have at least one pic of you really dressed up.

2. Buy some new clothes that are fitted to your body type, and are bright exciting colors

3. Girls work out your legs, butt and arms, guys, work out your shoulders and maximize your jawline through a lot of cardio

4. Work on your writing. Be funny, quick witted and edgy. It shows people that you aren't boring.

5. The two things all people respect are confidence and sense of humor. Develop both.

Happy Hunting!!!

Dr. Rob

Friday, November 6, 2015

PhD and 7 Time Author Teaches How to Become Smarter TODAY

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I have spent the last 5 years exclusively studying high tier geniuses and top level performers. Navy SEALs, CEOs, millionaires, and entertainers. I have compiled habits and practices that WILL help you process info at a higher level and cut down on roadblocks.

Remember, intelligence is NOT necessarily degrees, it can be:

*having a very high aptitude at a skill

*using social engineering properly

*being a very creative problem solver

*having the ability to process information from multiple sources quickly

*matching the right person to the right solution

Remember, you are reading the writing of a man that failed out of high school and two colleges, and grew up in a family filled with drugs, crime and dysfunction. I should be washing dishes in a bowling alley right now. But I developed my potential. Through asymmetrical actions that were not the "typical" ways that people go through life.

Now that we have a better idea of what "smart” is, let’s get started. six of the fastest techniques to create the “perfect storm” of intelligence building are the following:

1.     Learn to Categorize and Rank Information
One of the most valuable time savers is learning to quickly judge how valuable information is. Whether it’s a website, an article or a resource, you should be able to scan it in 20 seconds and ask three things:

  1. Does this have SERIOUS value to my business/life?
  2. Can I use this information to help someone/monetize/advance?
  3. Is this something that will IMMEDIATELY impact my life in a good way?

If you cannot answer yes to all three, TOSS IT and move on. If you can, bookmark it for later.

2.     Leverage Valuable People by Social Engineering
We cannot succeed at our endeavors alone. The faster you realize how important social engineering is, the faster you will advance in your goals. As a child, I had to do my own laundry since about 13. I left home at 18, and had to figure everything out on my own. Asking for help was NOT one of my strong points and I paid by taking much longer at projects and advancing as an adult.

Learn right away to spot value adders and offer a 3:1 ROI if you need something from them (you give 3 times more than you ask for)

*Influencers - people that have HIGH social value or lots of friends

*Mentors - people that are where you want to be in 5 years

*High Analyticals - These are people that can listen to your issue, filter out all unnecessary details and give a solution devoid of fluff, emotion, or wasted time.

3.     Healthy Use of Legal Neutropics
Neutropics are safe, natural drugs that are the next generation of cognitive enhancement. They are not prescription level or addictive like pain drugs. They literally use natural ingredients to help your brain process information faster and reduce “brain fog.”
I personally use a stack of Alphabrain and Strive from Nootrobox. Add a tiny amount of Starbucks Americano and some form of intense cardio in the morning and you would be shocked how fast your work improves. In fact I got so effective on these drugs, that I started selling them on my website. The results speak for themselves:

  1. 8 mile beach runs from reverse engineering running techniques
  2. My last book took 6 hours to write from beginning to end (publishing)
  3. A buddy asked for an outline on a 12 page paper covering gun control. I had it done in 9 minutes.

I am not a medical doctor. I make no claims as to how well these will augment your abilities. I just know that I am a high performer and this is one of the routines that has consistently delivered.

When I am using the same techniques as Silicon Valley millionaires and CEOs, (I myself am a dual CEO currently) then I know I am doing something right. This is a great article on neutropics with cited study:

To get started with these amazing brain boosting products and get an immediate discount, click here:

4.     Implement Music as an Auditory Enhancer
You can create an "advanced mental laboratory" simply from listening to music in the background when working on projects. I used classical music as a backdrop for high end research. You can use Youtube or Pandora (my personal favorite is Mahler’s 2nd, plus it’s over an hour long)

Studies have shown that classical music can improve student performance:

Study on listening to music and academia:

Finding your musical “sweet spot” will help you create a mental laboratory in which you will process info faster, do higher level searches of information and write with better vocabulary/higher tier concepts.

5.     Use the 80/20 Principle to Maximize Your Doctoral Process
The 80/20 principle is crucial for cutting time wasters and keeping only the most valuable resources in your life. For our intent today, it means this: 20% of people and resources will create 80% of your total value. You have a huge amount of resources in your day to day life. Assigning value to your top ones will save you time. Here are my best resources to fast track your progress at anything using the 80/20:

1. Purge the whiners and complainers. You know who they are. They criticize everything you do, blame everyone else for their issues and should have a giant "V" stamped on their forehead because there's a crisis every week that they desperately need sympathy for.

2. On the other hand, when you find a person that is a human gold nugget, get involved in their life, support their endeavors and offer help if they need it. They will reward you with referrals, invites, top notch advice, and more. Investment in human capital yields huge results.

6.     Limitless Advantage
The most important thing I have personally done to advance my own cognitive abilities is to buy the book Limitless.
Oh yeah, writing a book is just like this. Literally flies off the fingers

Yes, you read that right. You may have seen the movie and it is great to promote the concept of the "super pill" that creates a four digit IQ, but the book teaches you how geniuses think.

The movie is stellar as a glimpse of rapid life advancement and what we can become, but the book will literally show you how a high level thinker approaches social engineering, information gathering, gaining personal confidence, and the process of doing things at the highest possible level of application.

That last section is huge. It means that there are multiple ways of creating solutions to any problem but imagine being able to always pick the best and most productive one.

THAT is the beauty and power of this book. You can get it here:

In summary, these are my best tips. I want to thank you for reading this. If you feel like this article provided you with value, do me a HUGE favor and share it. Hope to hear from you soon, Dr. Rob
If you have high level tips that made you smarter, send them to me!

Wednesday, November 4, 2015

(Self Development) Conquering Depression

Conquering Depression

I have been depressed for most of my life. I have never admitted it to myself until today. I have never talked to anyone about it and feel its time to come clean.

            As I started life coaching, I read a lot of emails and read between the lines. Many of the guys writing me were fighting depression and felt overwhelmed. I thought that this paper could help them.

            I have always been a mildly sad person. As a kid, I grew up in a really dysfunctional family and 9th grade in high school was the worst. I was overweight, poor, being bullied in school pretty badly by a group of dicks and worst of all, lived with my grandmother who was a hoarder. Picture entire bedrooms filled floor to ceiling with clothes and garbage. Every one of my family members were openly abusing drugs. One uncle stole things from my room to buy meth when I was at school, and everyone in my family was overweight and good at excuses. That was 1990 and it nearly broke me.

            Depression is usually caused by four systematic things:

Event- Something traumatic or sad occurs and directly contributes to the sufferer's mood and pain

Situation- An ongoing life situation causes depression to creep in and linger

Chemical- The brain creates depression at regular intervals

Seasonal- A time of the year causes depression due to increased darkness or traumatic association

Isolation- The feeling that we are alone from family, loved ones and friends

     loss of interest in life or events
     excess sleeping
     sad mood for no reason
     withdrawn from events
     no energy
     short or angry with relatives/spouse

            If you recognize any of these things in your life, don't wait and don't put off treating this. Depression will usually not go away on its own. I think of it as a "treatable parasite of the brain." It is curable but you must make that decision.

I came up with some ideas to mitigate the presence of depression and get you "back in the saddle" for your life.

7 Powerful Treatments for Depression

Outdoor activities- People that stay indoors or in bed are robbing themselves of Vitamin D which we absorb from the sun through our skin. This can cause depression. Make it a point to create things that involve being outside. Go to the beach, go to a park, just go for a walk a few times a week. The point is, GO OUTSIDE!!

Conceptualize Future Dynamic Events- One thing I do when I get stressed or feel like nothing is going on, is to imagine the future events that are going to be amazing. For me, its a new condo I am saving up to move into. By taking 10 minutes and focusing on a great future event and how it will look/feel, you will be invigorated and excited.

Embrace Comedy- Get a friend and go to a comedy show or open mic. This serves a few purposes. It will get you around people, gets you out of the house, and listening to comedy gives you new perspectives on life. Talk to people at the club and soak in the experience and joy of laughter.

Get Active- One thing we can do as human beings is to jumpstart our endorphin system with active actions. Start running in the morning, go join a hot yoga class, ride a mountain bike, or go swimming. By increasing your heart rate and getting sweaty, you will transition into a better mental state. Plus, the additional fitness will draw people to you, both noticeably and subconsciously.

Isolate a Skill Set and Use it to Help Others- This was my key to shattering my depression. I figured out where my skill set was and offered it to others for free. This created a ripple effect of bringing others into my life, got me a lot of praise (and on the news for a book I wrote), and gave me so much purpose that I didn't have time to be sad. Think about something you are good at. Now take that skill and do something with it that benefits others. You could start a Meetup group, write a book, or even create a seminar or a video that teaches others how to do this. We all have skills and talents. Sharing them is a great way to create happiness.

Animals- The great thing about animals are that they love unconditionally. When was the last time you held a puppy, fed a baby goat, or pet a horse? Search out a petting zoo, visit a shelter, or go see a friend with pets. Animals are great companions and will cheer you up quickly.

Make an Aggressive Life Change- My worst bouts of depression were caused by boredom and loneliness. Once I joined a professionals group, I got involved in people's lives, sharing my experiences and large amounts of info from books I have read. I felt a sense of purpose and belonging. Make a promise to yourself and join a new class, start writing a book, create a blog, or join a new fitness program.

                          Remember the following five statements:

You do not "deserve" to be depressed

Every day you let depression control your life is a day of reduced productivity, income, and your meaningful impact on others
Just by reading this article, you have taken a huge step in creating a victory against your depression

Nearly everything in your life is a result of your choices. Choose a treatment and create a  program of happiness and abundance.

The greatest version of you is waiting every day for you to take charge and beat this. Be that person.

To be honest, the best treatment I have found is to surround myself with fun, exciting people that are genuinely into your life and hobbies. Embrace these people and make sure you appreciate them. 

If you are having a tough go of it and ever just need a friend to talk to, I am always available.


Dr. Rob

Friday, October 30, 2015

Become a Better Entrepreneur TODAY

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"OMG, look at the kitties!!"

For those of you that don't know me. I'm Dr. Rob Garcia. I am a life coach, specifically an optimization coach. It means when you are done reading this, you will be performing at a higher level. You will sharpen your entrepreneurial skills, you will think at a higher tier of cognitive function and you will have the confidence to influence others in a positive light.

How am I so sure? Because I live what I teach. By doing years of research I have:

Gone from struggling to finish a 1/2 mile beach run to completing a 16 mile nonstop beach run by training up to it.

"I need a banana and water. REAL BAD"

Failed high school and college twice and despite every adult in my family being on drugs or in prison, went on to earn six degrees including a Doctorate in Education

Self published 7 books (the last being done in 6 hours, start to finish)

Added 70 pounds to my bench press in a month by spending $20 on a piece of exercise equipment (hint: doorway)

Learned how to add value to media entities to get on TV, radio, and in magazines

Created an automated money system that will enable me to make sales 24/7 while I do NOTHING

Reverse engineered 5 diet plans to create my own diet plan to kick my obesity

All of these feats were possible because I adjusted my habits to adopt the most efficient way to do things. How can this help you? Because once you start realizing that certain things are slowing you down, removing or altering them can cause massive changes!


All of you have some type of skill or experience, The Law of Success by Napoleon Hill says that in order to truly have others appreciate you, you must give freely so that your talent will shine.

I volunteered to judge a high school science fair recently. I met a vice principal, a regional program manager and the director for every middle and high school in the county who immediately started talking about a contract for a speaking engagement. I was also successful in negotiating a partnership to help low income high school kids. Talk about a great promotion for my company.

Find Your Tribe

One of the hardest things I have worked on is building my image and making allies. I found a huge entrepreneurial group using and in this week alone have had four requests for help publishing books, an offer for teen counseling, and an offer to partner up with a school. YOU HAVE TO FIND LIKE MINDED PEOPLE SO YOU CAN GROW.

Find Your Market

Can you name off your target market right now? The top three people most likely to use your services?

For me as a life coach it is vets, teens, obese adults. That was easy. Now that I have identified them, how do i find them? I can do specialized searches on Facebook, I can search large groups (,, or I can drop the nuke:

(read that one twice)

So you go to, and hire a designer to make you an amazing promo card listing your service. It should have a professional photo of you, your services, and a contact email or business number. Now imagine doing this at every Starbucks in your area. That's free marketing 16 hours a day.

Next, use the app Whisper. Get it on your phone. I have seriously found 3 paying clients for coaching with little effort. Just make a post advertising what you do or are selling, a quick website link. (BIG HINT: Whisper uses keyword searches. If your market is vets, use words like "vets" "military" or "defense", you'll be matched to your audience).

Find a Mentor

This is essential. You need someone that can answer questions, guide you, and give suggestions. They should be two steps up the food chain than you (roughly 5-10 years ahead of you in terms of business growth). A mentor has "been there, done that" and will be an important step in your growth.

Conversely, you should BE a mentor as well. Volunteer in your local church, high school, middle school or Boys and Girls club. There are many ways to give back and spread your influence.


Advance to Your Next Level

I saved the best for last. In my book, The Next Level, I created a 5 tier ranking system to self identify one's proficiency at any job or skill. Then I listed 10 methods that top performers use to advance to their next level. For the last chapter, I interviewed four AMAZING top performers and isolated which Next Level methods worked for them.

By using this ranking system, you can absolutely apply this to your business, venture or company and see where you are. Then review the ten methods and plot out a new path to advance. I can absolutely help with this if you need a quick assist.

Here is my way of giving. The FREE E-Book of the Next Level. I believe so strongly in your growth that I am willing to share this powerful book for free. Just promise you will use it properly:

1. Get out a piece of paper and pen before reading it

2. Take notes when you read something meaningful

3. Use the GMOSC ranking system to isolate what level you are as an entrepreneur

4. Choose 1-10 of the methods to grow that are the most appealing to you (you can ABSOLUTELY combine them to make a more powerful method. Just like Voltron)

5. Read the interviews and realize what these people have gone through and how they crushed their roadblocks by using SELF CONFIDENCE

The Next Level FREE E-Book:

For those of you that want a hard copy (it makes a great gift), it's now 15% off ($11.04)

Weekly Summary

That about wraps it up for this week. What have we learned?

*Giving your valuable time can unlock MAJOR exposure to people that will hire you or buy your services/products

*Finding groups will help you create a valuable tribe

*A mentor can answer your hardest questions

*You now have a ranking tool for self assessment, 10 proven methods to be a better entrepreneur that is completely customizable to your business and 4 inspirations interviews FREE

Thanks for sticking with me this week. If you liked what you read and want to start giving back, all of this would greatly help me:

1. Subscribe to the Blue Dragon Blog (If you search the archives, you'll find some pretty amazing content. I write about fitness, RAPID cognitive growth, confidence building and more)

2. Tell people about the blog in your social media

3. Visit Blue Dragon Enterprises at and check out my NEW feature Blue Dragon University, which has powerful digital products that will accelerate your life!!

Next week:

"How to Access Higher Cognitive Abilities in ONE DAY"

Friday, October 23, 2015

(Entrepreneurial) How to Boost Your Confidence 150%

*This post is dedicated to the Scroupies - The Screw the 9 to 5 Community and Josh and Jill Stanton. I've finally found a home. - Dr. Rob


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As entrepreneurs, we have to endure a much higher degree of scrutiny then the average person. Despite being creative, taking chances and pushing forward to the lifestyle of our dreams, we are laughed at, talked down to and sometimes openly made fun of.

For some of us, especially the quiet, nice types, its a rough road. So in true life coaching fashion, I am going to share four ways for you to grow your confidence, interact with others in a far more aggressive, yet effective manner (No Jill, I'm not going to teach people the Road House Larynx Removal Tactic).

Why do we need confidence? It has several overlapping benefits, in fact, if you tried all four suggestions I mention, you might be SHOCKED at how much it changes your day to day life. Confidence draws others to you, both in business and romantically. It makes people want to be around you, and to seek you out for advice and counsel.

Confidence is especially important to entrepreneurs because you have to be a self starter, in many cases like the pic above, leaving your security and safety behind and relying on your equipment and wits to survive.

As you increase your confidence, you will seek out mentors, offer better goods and services, and interact on a much more effective level with others.

1. Improve Your Body Language

"You want to sell me WHAT?"

"Gosh Rob, tell me more about University of Phoenix"
(Note: No girl this hot has EVER looked at me like this without psychedelic drugs)

Looking at the two examples above, you can clearly see what each pose indicates. the first means that this guy is clearly annoyed, arms crossed means hes being defensive and wants you off the property ASAP. The second pose shows that this guy is rapidly approaching "Netflix and chill" territory for date 2. Shes smiling, leaning in, head cocked, and shes so comfortable that she is resting her head on her hand.

When you interact with others, think about how you are reacting.

1. Shake hands with some light pressure, smile openly when greeting.
2. Walk with confidence and poise, none of this head looking downward, shoulders slumped BS.
3. Look people RIGHT IN THE EYE, do not drift off in conversations, it shows you are disinterested in them.
4. When you walk through a crowded room, make eye contact with others and try to imagine if you were a movie star, an athlete or a leader among others, BECAUSE YOU ARE.

2. Change Your Image

Your image as an entrepreneur speaks volumes about your professionalism. At times, we need to adjust it accordingly. We can change our hair, our wardrobes, even our thinking styles. I had a chance to go up in front of a military commissioning board a few times. Someone took me aside and said, "You ARE going to lose some weight, right?" It was necessary. I've always struggled with weight stuff and I needed to look professional in uniform. I adopted what would become the Skinny Dragon Diet, lost about 15-22 pounds, and got selected for the board. In this case a change of image definitely helped.

(Before) God Bless my ex gf for having bad eyesight

(After) 20 pounds lighter

Some ways you can change your image:

1. Get a new haircut

2. Buy a new wardrobe that is form fitting

3. Burn a lot of fat

4. Gain a lot of muscle (I went from a fat 222 to a lean 196 to a muscular 232)

5. Have a professional photoshoot done (this was mine, I imagined it for YEARS. I went to the beach, ran 3 miles, and jumped in the ocean at 7am. YES IT WAS COLD)

Early pre shoot a few years back with friends

3. Create a Result

As entrepreneurs, we have periods where NOTHING changes. We don't get new clients, we don't make sales, we don't see any results. There is only one solution:


Sorry for the ice water in the face approach, but I'm not here to be nice, I'm here to make some really amazing things happen in your life. You chose this life, so act like someone that deserves to make money.

I needed to jumpstart Blue Dragon so I did the following:

1. Walked into a charter school and offered to work for free as a consultant
Result: Met the district coordinator and was offered access to 13 schools and a regular speaking gig

2. Tracked down a morning news producer and pitched my teen book
Result: An appearance on the San Diego Living Morning Show. Book sales increased

3. Joined several large groups
Result: Paying clients, new allies, a radio appearance

All of these great results came from me being bold and going where no man has gone before.

Creating a result will bolster your confidence and add to your entrepreneurial "resume"

4. Adopt a Fitness Routine

I'm a big proponent of fitness. It has literally changed so many aspects of my life. It increases endorphins, puts me in a better mood, allows me to be social, and more. Even if you don't have a regular method of fitness, I suggest you try something new. Its a great way to blow off steam and decompress.

When I was going through my Ed.D program, fitness was the only way I could really decompress. Imagine writing a 60 page paper, getting it back with 15-25 mistakes on EVERY PAGE. That's called a revision. It means you've just lost 3 weekends in a row. I had at least 5 revisions. The gym and beach running kept me sane.

If you need a new fitness routine, you can try Zumba, Crossfit, Spin Bike, or just go for regular walks. JUST DO SOMETHING NEW.

With those 4 steps, you can revitalize your confidence, create a new you, and be on your way to a better image. As always, I am here for you guys anytime.

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